You know, darling, why my eyebrowes do not grow. Well, they
do not grow as earlier. Perhaps, I have to try this cream?
- Tell me please will this mask be right for me? Maybe
it is better to make massage first?
- And who does manicure today?
- I wanted to make an appointment by phone, but it is
impossible to reach you. Today I need to make my hair
styling!
That was I've heard during that hour which has been lead
in a beauty salon. They are hysterical and languid, talkative
and eternally smiling, absolutely young and trying to
be young. I saw huge invasion of women which are met and
treated by another female command - hairdressers, cosmeticians,
masseurs. An hour, another hour, the third hour, and due
to effort of masters and money of clients appears the
updated person who almost as in advertising, having shaken
by curls, will drop: "In fact I am worth it!". In general,
this is the real Russian woman, maked
by an image and similarity of the divines from glossy
magazines!
It would seem, several years ago, there where popular
jokes about conversation of American woman, britain woman,
french woman and Russian woman. They
compare the way of life - about sex, fashion, life … ".
If you remember, Russian woman looked
the most resourceful and sharp in such jokes and at the
same time she was ignorant of many ordinary affairs, which
are usual for foreign women. And today these jokes somehow
have died out. Most likely, having ceased to be actual
on a background of all us who are more active infuse in
the civilized world and the fact that we are indistinguishable
from representatives of other countries.
Really, speaking about appearance care the Russian
woman goes right at the same level with foreign
women. Here are anticellulitis dirties, nails and hair
escalating, million programs of hips reduction and a bust
increasing … Speaking further about decorative cosmetics
Russian and western women's roads are not the same. Exhausted
by recently past deficiency, the solvent Russian woman
prefers to buy all that is most expensive and prestigious,
that is under a name of any world famous mark. And Russian
women have also a propensity to get experimental
cosmetic novelties (not suspecting though how to use them),
if they are considered to be fashionable. For comparison
- pragmatic and natural American women, which are moonstruck
about all that is healthy, buy tons of tightening creams
and masks, buying from decorative cosmetics only mascara
for eyelashes and powder. The same preferences of french
women - humidifying creams, hygienic lipsticks and as
a unique concession to fashion - mascara for eyelashes.
As write fashionable magazines, in a choice of clothes
Russian woman also differs cardinally
from foreign women. No, it is impossible to tell, that
Russian women have lagged behind a fashion and do not
know names of famous couturiers. Simply Russian
woman has not got used yet to such variety of
fashionable bagatelles.
For example, if the european woman will buy smooth linen
of natural silk or cotton fabrics, and the American woman
will prefer silk linen of shrill shades - from green up
to bright red, former soviet lady whom morally-sustained
linen became a legend, will like lace in linen, guipure
and an embroidery. A superhygienic and breathing cotton
seems to Russian woman to be not prestigious and cheap
stuff, what is rather unfair. Beeing sick from monophonic
"nonspottable" clothes of former years, the Russian woman
is in delight today about "gay" clothes. Jackets with
stuffed figure, a jabot, an embroidery, the tight jackets,
skirts and blouses are most popular at Russia. There have
appeared sated tone in a coloring of clothes.
By the way, Russian woman has changed today not only externally,
but also internally. She has a new image, more truly,
she has plenty of images. It was possible to say about
the soviet woman only one thing - the qualified employee,
more often the teacher or the doctor, the true wife (the
USSR - the country, where was the lowest level of divorces),
careful mother. It is enough to recollect magazine "Soviet
woman " where in details, precisely, was presented
all life of USSR's woman. About such women they made films
and wrote in newspapers: "Selfless woman-worker, active
member of humane societies, the soviet woman always was
and remains the first teacher of young generation. Surrounding
by attention and care, warming children by mother's heat,
women bring them up healthy, cheerful, impart them better
qualities of the soviet person - fidelity to communism,
high consciousness, diligence, unquenchable love to the
native land, feeling of deep internationalism. Thanks
to you from all the nation, women-mothers, for your daily,
tireless and noble efforts, for your mother's heart, for
your indefatigable care of family strengthening!"
(newspaper “TRUD ", 8.03.1972)
To draw a portrait of the average Russian woman
today is very difficult, it is practically impossible,
because all average leveling remained in the past. Women
of the most different estates and trades flash on telescreens.
Police employee and businesswomen, ambulance surgeons
and public prosecutors, cashiers of stations and prostitutes
… Where she is that average Russian woman, when there
is such sharp division into social groups in the country
- rich group and poor proup. To make sure of it, it is
enough simply to get out on a street. There is aunt Masha
in an old jacket begs, and here the girl Lena in a mink
fur coat sits down in the car....
To how many children Russian woman dares to give birth?
That depends on a today's standard of well-being. If earlier
there was a minimum three children in each Soviet family,
today the majority of pairs presume to have only one child.
The most part of married couples with children - a result
of experts's imagination of the advertising companies,
advancing new brands of meal and clothes in the market.
They smiling juicy and safely from television screens
and the big posters in streets, whereas actually there
are 24 million families with children in Russia and every
second family is poor and have only one child. Besides
the pleasure of motherhood frightens by an opportunity
to remain without well paid work, and together with it
without prospects qualitatively to change the life. And
if in France, Germany, Denmark, Ireland, Greece the salary
of women with little child is kept for the period from
3 till 9 months, at Russia all who dare to have children
will get only scanty grant.
Careerism - one more characteristic feature of the modern
Russian woman, because of which there
is bad situation with a demography in the country. Actually,
as shows a life, Russian women aspire
to climb up more quickly on a career ladder not so much
because of own ambitions, but because of the material
benefit. That is normal human desire - to earn on an apartment
and the machine, and after that to get family. It is no
wonder, that answering a question about priorities in
a life, Russian women put first an opportunity
of education. According to last population census, there
is more women having higher education today, than the
men ended high schools.
Well, one more feature to a portrait of the modern
Russian woman. Besides that the Russian
woman aspires to gnaw a granite of a science,
forcibly elbows competitors aside - men on a labour market
and does not hurry up to get children, she more and more
skeptically concerns to a marriage. So, according to statistic,
in 1989 there was 36 million marriage pairs in Russia,
in 2002 there is only 34 million. For the first time in
history of the Russian censuses last time they counted
not only the registered marriages, but also civil ones.
There are 3 million civil marriages in Russia. Sociologists
explain it by the fact that modern women began to think
more scrupulously about attitudes with the man. To avoid
further mistakes, they long and carefully look at the
future husbands. And maybe the matter is in men's indecision?...