How do I get started?
A: Read about the services we provide. Decide on the membership or non membership
route. Use the search page to find the ladies you are looking for. You will
not get replies from all of the ladies you write to, so don't just pick one
or two. Order their addresses and write, email or phone them. From then on,
it's up to you. If you wish to meet any of the ladies you write to, we can arrange
a personal tour when you get to that stage.
Are these girls for real?
A: Yes, all the girls on this site are actively trying to find a foreign partner
for marriage or a long term relationship. We ask all of our ladies, on a regular
basis, if they wish to be removed from our database so we only list the girls
who are actively looking for a partner.
Why do the ladies on your site prefer a foreign guy?
A: The answer is the poor economic situation. It's too few decent jobs here
in FSU that will give belarussian men a chance to give a decent support for
their families. Too few jobs, too much vodka, too little wish to change anything...
How many ladies should I write to, to ensure I get a response?
A: Most clients take advantage of the fact the price falls to euro 5 each
per address, instead of the usual euro 10 per address, when you order 10 addresses
or more. Members can retrieve 10 addresses per month free of charge, so they
also tend to write to a lot of ladies. In short the answer is that if you
write to only one or two ladies, you are severely limiting your chances. You
should start with about ten ladies you like, write to them by postal mail
if your in no hurry for a reply, or via our mail forwarding service, if you
would like to get a reply more quickly. Remember to include a good photo of
yourself. Then sit back and see how it goes, and the number of replies you
get. If you don't get many replies, revise your letter or expectations accordingly
and try again.
How to make a right choice?
You never know in advance if this certain girl can be match for you... Sometimes
two nicest and most intelligent people cannot be together because of any mysterious
reasons that are not ever visible for others as well as for them, too! But
anyway, you have to start somehow. So, try to tell yourself first what are
the most important SIMPLE issues for you in a woman that can be your wife:
if you are agree she to have children, if her education is important for you,
if her height or weight are important, etc. Use then our search engine selecting
all girls that suit these requirements. Then look at the photos and see which
girls appeal to you the most. Then I would advice you to choose those girls
whose addresses were retrieved the MINIMAL number of times! There will be
MUCH larger probability to establish a good and sincere relationship with
just such girls. I saw girls here whose addresses were retrieved for 20-40
and more times and... they get lost in all the names and other characteristics
and if you ask her in two weeks after receiving your letter who are you and
what are you I bet she will never remember!! She read 40 more letters after
that and all this stuff is mixed in her beautiful head... Except that she
knows that she will get more responses tomorrow... and after tomorrow... and
maybe just in a week she will get a letter from Tom Cruise for sure :)) So,
she will reject any other man who doesn't look like him! At the same time
be sure that a girl who received her last letter a couple weeks ago misses
communication, she is not spoiled with lots of men's attention and she surely
will answer you and will think of you every night and wait for your response
impatiently. Her heart is more tender, more sensitive, she is more open for
you! And finally be sure that she is much less selfish than a girl who looks
like photo model and who gets lots of letters and lots of flowers from lots
of men. Remember, that you look for a WIFE!
I was scammed a few times. How can I know if YOUR ladies are honest?
I know about scams maybe more than anybody else because I provide investigations
for men at the cases they feel something wrong about the lady they corresponded
with. Yes, it happens. Some dishonest people use girls or just beautiful photos
that they get in magazines or on other sites (BTW, I also was a victim of
this kind of scam!) and make money on men who think they correspond with a
real girl. Men are asked for money "For corresponding/translation service",
"I can get a visitor's visa to the US but I need €2.000.00 for this",
"For tickets to visit you, my dear", etc. All this as well as any
other kind of scam is completely impossible if you communicate with our girls
through us. Why?
1. She will NEVER need money for covering her corresponding/translation expenses
because our service is totally FREE for women. We don't ask them to pay any
cent.
2. The letters that go through us are translating with our staff and if any
hint to this kind of intention would be noticed this lady would be removed
IMMEDIATELY. We remove all and each lady if we get any compromising info about
her wrong behavior or intentions.
Our reputation as an honest and reliable agency is MUCH more important for
us than a few dollars that we can earn on the beautiful, but dishonest in
any way lady.
How can I know if a lady I saw on your site speaks any language (English,
German...)??
Please, go down of her profile and find the line "Language". If
a lady speaks English you will see it at that line. You also can see the level
of her language. The rate can be from 0 to 5.
0 - no knowledge, never learned English, needs translations both ways
1 - beginner, needs translations both ways (for example, school lessons -
3-5 years)
2 - some English with a dictionary, needs translations both ways (for example,
she visits courses)
3 - poor English, needs translations from Russian to English only (this lady
has some practice already)
4 - good English, practically doesn't need translations (for difficult conversations
only)
5 - fluent English (speaks& writes easily), doesn't need translations
at all
We encourage our ladies to write in English if they mark their level of English
as "4" and "5".
If a lady has "3" level of English that means that she maybe is
able to read your letter, but it will take hours to understand a page of the
text :)) So, if you wouldn't like she to get nervous and answer you fast,
we would advice to order translation of your letter and of course to ask for
translation of her letter if you don't speak Russian.